Relationship Studio
Ms Chua
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I keep questioning whether I would be a virtuous and caring partner for my future spouse. If I am virtuous and caring, then what is the reason that opposite gender does not find me an attractive and worthy spouse? In order to find out what is the reason that is hindering me from having a successful love relationship, I had decided to approach Miss Cindy Leong a renowned Dating Coach from Divine Connect for advice.
Cindy had introduced me to the Enneagram Personality Profiling Tool. It helps me to identify my strength and weakness of my personality. I am a Type 5. This type of personality tends to be a thinker. We might seem aloof and arrogant on the exterior because we are always in the head. We are logical and analytical. However. friends and loved one does not know that we are lost in their thought when we are upset, and need some time to sort our thoughts. This is how we suppress our emotion through detachment.
Cindy taught that it is perfectly fine to think, but I should also express myself. I can release my negative emotions, but through less drastic methods. I have learnt to be assertive (as this is my growth point for Breakthrough) but I could also speak in a gentle and slower tone to express my dismay. I learnt that it is good to be present in the moment, and also to engage other’s emotionally.
Her coaching has helped me become a better person professionally and socially. I am more confident of myself and my strengths. She also shared with me the qualities a guy is seeking for in a life partner. I would strongly recommend my fellow single friends to attend the Enneagram workshop, and have 1-to-1 coachings with Cindy.
" Ms Chua